So, apparently there’s brothels that offer physical affection (like hugs) as opposed to sex. And it got me thinking about asexuality and non – sexual/ platonic physical affection.
I love physical affection. I’ve always loved hugs in particular. Just holding someone and resting your head on their shoulder is just so sweet; for me anyway.
There are asexuals (and probably people of other orientations) that are indifferent or uncomfortable with any form of physical affection. I do think in regard to physical affection, context and appropriateness needs to be taken into consideration. If someone doesn’t like it, then they don’t like it. It’s not my place or anyone else’s to impose any alternative views on someone else.
Cultures can play a part in how human interactions as well. Apparently, generally, Americans, for example, are very physical and don’t mind hugging someone or having their personal space invaded. However, Scandinavians are the opposite: they prefer personal space and not to be swamped by strangers. In some cultures, gender comes into play. For example, in Aboriginal (Australian) cultures, it’s often taboo for people of the opposite sex who aren’t related to show physical affection because they take it as a sexual advance.
The key, as with everything, is respect. People on all sides of physical affection preferences deserve to be heard and respected. Whether you’re a snuggle bunny or like to maintain your personal space, may you live in happiness. 🙂